It’s okay to have a healthy love relationship. Unfortunately, you may find that your partner is a narcissist. It is a shocking and sad fact. It is much better to know the truth than to be trapped in lies for the rest of your life.

Narcissists are those types of people incapable of loving other human beings. They sabotage and destroy their relationships. Keep your eyes peeled so it’s not too late to get out.

The relationship with a narcissist will change you. There is a proverb “When in Rome, do as the Romans do”. In other words, this person affects your emotions, your behaviors and decisions. His mind games, manipulations and lies will brainwash you. You will agree to believe in many toxic false beliefs about yourself and your life. Toxic memories about him will stay in your mind for a long time.

When you decide to leave, you may be completely broken in your new reality without him. You lost your identity and self-esteem when you were exploited by his domination and abuse.

The narcissist leads his victims to lose their authenticity. You won’t know who you are anymore because he was the only one who told you who you are for so long.

You may feel broken because he broke your trust and betrayed you emotionally. In other words, he tricks your persona into trusting him completely. He takes you to tell him all about you. You believed in his false personality and his false intentions. That is the reason why they manipulated you to do, think and feel what he wanted. He just used your weaknesses and confidence against you.

The narcissist loves power and control. He knows how much women love to have a romantic partner. That’s why they perform a love scene. Often he will be the first to use those three magic words of ‘I LOVE YOU’.

He will repeat this over and over again until he gets the same confession from you. It’s just a confirmation to them that you were sucked in. Then you must worship and obey them. Otherwise, you are useless to him.

He will also do his best to isolate you. He hates exposing family and friends to him. That is the main reason why he will separate you from them. You will be alone with him. You won’t win with endless mind games and abuse from him.

His plan is to destroy your life. It will catch you mentally. It’s a mind control game. He will offend you and degrade you. You think you are a worthless, weak, loveless and unimportant creature. No one but him can love you, so you must stay. If you rebel, he will use your dark secrets against you. If you want to run away, it will keep you financially dependent and mentally addicted to it.

When he decides that you are not a good supply for him, he will leave you as an empty wallet. He will find a new victim leaving you wondering what happened. Yes, you have never been a loving human being to him. You were an object to him.

It is a very harrowing experience. There are many grievances, painful emotions, and traumatic memories. When you accept a challenge and acknowledge your pain, you have the opportunity to be reborn. It is a great opportunity to rebuild yourself, to be a strong, free and empowered individual.

If you’re in a relationship with a narcissist now, you don’t have to live like this. You can get out before it goes any further.

Take a deep breath, recognize those red flags and do something about them.