Men and women have different ways of interacting in the world. Masculine energy manifests as a more goal-oriented, focused, powerful and strong man. This leads many masculine men to focus on making money, solving problems, climbing to be leaders, and political power.

Feminine energy manifests as a woman being more loving, wanting to be beautiful. Other qualities and being sensitive, intuitive, soft, emotional, joyful, happy, deep and spiritual.

Every man has both masculine and feminine energy. One tends to be stronger. Each woman also has both principles in a different balance.

Now sexual attraction caused by the interaction of masculine and feminine energies. One could call this chemistry.

Gay couples also tend to have this interaction, but it could be called active and passive.

Generally, a strongly feminine woman can make a strongly masculine man dissolve with just a smile from her heart.

Many men these days tend to lose their masculine power when they are around an attractive woman. Because they need a lot of love and approval, they become needy and boy-like. This destroys any sexual attraction for most women.

Some men also struggle to get into their more receptive and feminine side of being sensitive and in touch with their feelings and heart.

Many women have lost the ability to be deeply feminine due to past sexual abuse, rejection, and simply living in our masculine society. Being feminine can be very vulnerable. It is safer for some women to be more masculine to avoid any rejection. They struggle to let go of sex and be fully in their orgasmic power.

Most women are sexually attractive to a stronger male presence and feel rejected by a needy guy who just wants to please. Most women do not want to become a mother to a man. When a woman is with a strong man, she feels safe to let go more fully and immerse herself in her femininity, especially in sex.

Most women also want a strong man to be sensitive and express his feelings. They want their man to make love from his heart and also from his penis.

The key is to be able to get into the best energy depending on the situation. Women need masculine energy to get things done at work and to organize the children etc.

Unfortunately, when a couple lives together for a long time, the masculine and feminine dynamic tends to get lost. Sex loses that energetic power it had when you first got together.