Can anyone tell me why Nigerian guys are more confident than Nigerian girls (ladies, women, whatever description you choose) when uploading a picture on the growing number of Nigerian dating sites we have on the market? There are so many guys who have uploaded their photos. However, are you looking for the typical profile of a Nigerian lady and can’t find a photo? Shy you say? Well, I say it’s probably because at one point or another we’ve felt that online dating is for those who are ‘powerless’ to find someone offline. Somebody tell Nigerians to upload a photo…
HOW TO DATE A NIGERIAN GIRL?
The factors that create relationships are the same online or offline. I hope you will correct me, but women are the same all over the world and respond quickly to the same set of factors. We would all know by now that the typical woman wants to feel loved, wanted, and I believe that a secure feeling is a sine qua non for women. Let me explain with an example, a Nigerian guy was talking about his girl (she was Nigerian by the way) the other day and he told me, ‘we have a house that we are renting and the natural thing is to start thinking about a mortgage so that we can stop paying the rent and, obviously, having a house of one’s own”.
He continued: ‘There’s another idea I had… let’s buy a house, rent it out and get another one for ourselves and keep buying as many as we can because I was interested in investing in the real estate market.’ He flatly rejected the idea…he wanted a warm and cozy house right away and wasn’t thinking about a long term investment or whatever!
THE WHOLE IDEA
Men are naturally wired to be hunters and I think Nigerian men are very good hunters. Don’t try to immediately impress with a show of force; what a big mouth you are or how rich you are (women may love wealth, but you end up with gold diggers if you flaunt wealth upfront). Have you heard the saying? Women fall in love with their EARS while men fall in love with their EYES!
The best thing to do on a Nigerian dating site is to write a profile outlining your outdoor choices, music, pet dreams, etc. Now, I realize this doesn’t work for everyone, but it works for most! Don’t be so selfish when writing a profile, put yourself in his shoes and ask him what you would like to know if you were the lady. You usually have to make the first move too! It has disappeared in some places but Nigerian girls still largely believe in you making the first contact! So buy that subscription!