Depending on the character of the guy you’ve given yourself over to, there are so many things he would think about after you’ve already had sex with him. The element of time is also a big factor that makes or breaks your chances of being together with him. So what happens inside his head once you’ve already slept with him?

“What will happen next?”

This guy is probably thinking what would happen now that you have reached a deeper level in your relationship. Would you still view it as a casual date, or would sleeping together automatically level your relationship up?

“Are you thinking that I’m your boyfriend now?”

Chances are, your man is feeling doubts about the whole relationship thing now. Are you going out exclusively from now on? Is there a need to start telling people that you are already their girlfriend? Most men just give in in the heat of the moment and then realize the stakes are too high for just one night of pleasure.

“I did it well?”

Other men are much less complex when it comes to the thoughts that go through their heads after sex. Some of them only care if he made you come or not. His concern is that you enjoy yourself, and he’s probably wondering if you’d want to do it again with him.

“What are you thinking right now?”

You are also forced to think about what is going on inside your head. His sensitivity will increase now that you’ve had sex with him, so now he’s worried about what you’re thinking right after you’ve slept together.

“I leave?”

For a man who is not ready for any commitments, this is the most obvious thought. He is not ready to offer you anything, in fact it was lust that led him to have sex with you and now he is worried about how to break this news to you in the most subtle way possible.

“Should I thank you for the night?”

A man may wonder if you agreed to do this just this one time or if there is something more serious about to happen. Most men hate to think that having sex seals any kind of deal.

“Should I tell someone?”

He may be just as stumped as you are, so he’s thinking about how to deal with the situation. He doesn’t know if his friends need to know or he would just keep it all to himself. Whether he fesses up or brags about their night together is really up to him.