Women who give too much in relationships will generally find that their relationships don’t work out. And this happens to many women. They give too much, too soon, and then wonder why it is not appreciated. If you are exhausted from giving to your man, if you are feeling exhausted from feeling like you are getting little in return, read this article to find out why giving too much does not convince a man.
Women can be very generous and devoted in relationships. Naturally, a girl wants to impress her new man from the start. However, giving too much is never a good thing when you barely know a guy. If you give too much without demanding that you receive in return, he may accept your generous gifts, but unconsciously he will know that you underestimate yourself. He will lose respect for you from the start. It may be taken advantage of, but then it will probably go away.
This is because giving too much tends to stem from a sense of need and inadequacy. If I give more, he will love me more. If I do more, he will appreciate me more. Give because you don’t want to lose the relationship that gives you purpose. She is afraid to say no to him in case he gets mad and abandons her. Perhaps she washes his clothes, lends him money and gives him gifts, or is sleeping with him too soon. She can put her own life on hold to always be available to him and give in to his last minute requests and demands.
Do you appreciate this? No, he does not do it. If she lets him trample her, he will not respect her and the relationship will be doomed. It will assume that you are desperate. Or that it is easy. A man really wants a woman who can defend and take care of herself, despite what he says to the contrary. This is because a man wants a woman who values herself. If you give yourself away on someone you hardly know, you don’t value yourself. And if you don’t value yourself, he certainly won’t. Men will value and respect you according to the value and respect you place on yourself.
An immature man may encourage you to be selfless and to give generously to him, but he will only be interested in you while you are giving. As soon as you expect something in return, he will not be able to give back. You will end up exhausted and exhausted. This is a good reason to get to know him before giving too much!
Added to this, women who give too much in relationships are generally unable to receive because they don’t feel worthy. She is uncomfortable if he pays for dinner or buys her gifts or helps her in any way. She feels that she should be independent and does not like to ask him for help. However, a mature masculine man needs to feel needed by his woman. He is happy to help, as long as she admires his efforts. It is important to him to be meaningful. Generosity is a masculine trait and for this reason, a man will love treating the girl of his dreams. A woman who knows how to receive and appreciate will bring out the best in her man and make him feel good. These are the relationships that are successful, not the ones in which a woman gives too much.
Instead, her generosity makes him feel stifled. He feels your need and is uncomfortable with your expectations. He wonders when the time for retribution will come. These women are giving because they want something in return. They want the relationship at any cost. Who the man is tends to be quite irrelevant and he knows it. Without the relationship, it feels empty and empty.
If you are one of these women who give too much in relationships, then you are not alone. Most of us have been there at some point in our lives. Giving too much is generally unconscious behavior. We don’t even know we’re doing it. Once you are aware of it, you can start to see the reasons why you are doing it. Realize that now is the time to start giving yourself a higher value so that a man will value you more. Start learning how to receive as well as give and appreciate every little thing your man does for you. This will encourage you to give more and feel good about it. If you can do this, you will have more energy and happier relationships.