What is the difference between good sex and bad sex? A bit tricky question because really, only you can know that. Each individual will have a different perception of what good sex is to the next person. It’s like food in a way, you might like bacon with sauce and others don’t, so give the hater sauce and they’ll see it as bad instead of good.

The best way to explain this is to turn off what is supposed to be a huge turn off in the bedroom, knowing the do’s and don’ts at the beginning, during and after intercourse will help you avoid upsetting your sexual partner. Disliking and rejecting this person is most likely a Facebook rant about their bad sexual experience. Not every partner can be embarrassed like this online, but your friend can. Everyone has a friend they can trust, so do it right.

Keep in mind that what one person would love to have done between the sheets, the next person might not like it and be scared. Know the likes and dislikes of the partner beforehand from him. Quick clumsiness in an alleyway may not be a time that gives you time to ask questions, however before you make a move ask if they are willing to do so. If you get a positive response, go ahead, but a hint of apprehension, forget it.

Also, a time to act sensibly. Use a condom to avoid an unwanted pregnancy or a sexually transmitted infection.

Sexual Mistakes Women Make:

1. When the man turns on his side after sex, he is not ignoring you. He has made love and now he is tired. The vast majority of men don’t connect when they’re done having sex and women shouldn’t see this as a bad thing, but most do, unfortunately. Leave him alone and let him sleep. He plays smart, as tired men don’t perform well, especially if those unfinished jobs around the house still need to be done.

2. If you’re not happy with the shape of your naked body, don’t complain to him about it. You may not be unhappy with it. Covering up is not what he wants’, he needs to see the merchandise. Less layers is every man’s dream, so let him get on with it.

3. As much as men love sex and statistics have shown that they think about sex every four seconds, they don’t like to be bothered. Bullying can kill your desire to have sex. Sexual Mistakes Men Make:

4. Foreplay for most guys includes giving big sloppy wet kisses and quick groping. Okay, this is fine, but foreplay consists of a lot of cute action. You have your partner’s entire naked body to explore, so aside from your hands, use your tongue as well. Don’t put a restriction on that tongue let it roam free. Start from the ear to the neck, going down to the breasts. Your partner’s response lets you know if she is enjoying this. Foreplay is a must for women.

5. As eager as you are to get down to business, find out what turns your girl on. Good sex is all about pleasing. Some men, after satisfying themselves, think the job is done. Don’t be selfish and think about your partner.

6. Another typical sexual mistake that men make is to act like they are a sex symbol or a god. Don’t spoil the moment. Be yourself.

7. If you tend to use sexual devices and sex toys, ask if it’s okay. Kinky is not for everyone.

8. Poor hygiene is the biggest turnoff.

9. Communication a key factor. Talk things through with your partner. Get him or her to talk about their feelings about sex. You may be pleasantly surprised to hear what they have to say. If your opinion of certain sexual acts is good, great, if it’s not, it’s not the end of the world. At least now you have an indication of what is wrong and how your partner is feeling and can therefore correct it. Now you don’t have to give your partner good sex.